Can A Marriage Withstand Group Sex?

The movie Hall Pass brought an idea to the big screen that many people think about. In that movie, the plot centered around married couples being given the okay to have sex with others. For people in long term relationships, this can be complicated. Most instances of group sex or threesomes that take place in movies, turn out perfect. They hardly ever show the awkwardness, resentment, jealousy and problems this event leaves behind. It is why the question of whether or not a marriage or unison can survive group sex is so difficult to answer.

Some sex experts may say it can help make a relationship better. But there are many others who feel otherwise. Their opinion is that having group sex or extra-marital liaisons, can cause intimacy and trust to degrade, not strengthen it. Still, as more individuals are becoming open with their sexuality, things are changing. Pornography viewing is at all times high. Many of the things couples watch together, are group sex videos. For couples who can both agree mutually that this may be something they want, it can work.

Unlike consensual extra-marital sex, adultery leaves behind harmful feelings which destroy the relationship. In truth, while most people may be open to the idea, carrying it out and surviving it after can be the biggest challenge. Humans are territorial by nature; more so when they are in a relationship. Visualizing your spouse with someone else is torture enough for some. Actually seeing it happen is another story altogether.

Coincidentally, if a person is thinking about having extra marital affairs, it can be a clue that they are unhappy or unsatisfied when it comes to their present sex lives. Being open and discussing it with your partner is essential. If you both agree that this is something you can live with later, then you can try it out. Otherwise, leave the group sex to the porno movies you watch, and thoughts to the sexual fantasies.

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